Тиндер зачем просят номер телефона

Это нормально? Буквально с первого, второго сообщения. Раньше на других сайтах регистрировалась. Такого не было.. На Тиндере абсолютно все, кто пишет сразу просит номер. Если пишу» Давайте для начала здесь пообщаемся», удаляют(

Tinder — сайт знакомств — отзывы Рекомендуют 26%))))))))))) https://otzovik.com/reviews/tinder-sayt_znakomstv/

Нет таких, где все хорошие отзывы

И сообщения такие похожие, да? Это не реальные дядьки, а агентства, потом будут тетки звонить, типа «помощницы», разводить на встречу у них в агентстве, а там на деньги. На тиндере таких море.

тиндер -это сайт знакомств для секса, поэтому люди сразу к делу переходят, а вы как хотели?

ой, да перестаньте

Да, сейчас так. И не только на Тиндере. Нормально это для вас или нет — но это реальность. Многие дамы, как видите, разделяют подход. Появилась новая культура секса — мне надо, тебе надо, нас друг от друга сразу не затошнило, договорились о ритуалах и пошли.

Хадость какая, тьфу!

нет это не так. это нереальные мужики.

Это разные. Есть нереальные, есть реальные.

А зачем тратить время, если при встрече будет разочарование? Мужчины любят ГЛАЗАМИ. Ладно бы если женщины размещали свои актуальные фотографии, а то ведь фотошоп голимый.

Если вам так нравилось общение без просьбы номера телефона, то и сидели бы там, общались.. А почему по телефону пообщаться не хотите?

Ну вот я, например, не люблю вообще говорить по телефону. И зачем мне левый кто-то в моей трубке, про кого я еще не знаю ничего? С перепиской проще. Если человек понравится — тогда можно в мессенджеры переходить.

Мне тоже сразу рррряз и телефон пишут. Естественно, не звоню. Умные какие!

Вы не знаете как удалять левый номер, если голос в трубке вам не понравился по каким-либо причинам? А переписываться и узнавать можно до скончания века, только это не гарантирует от разочарования, увы, когда вы услышите голос при личной встрече..

Я знаю, как удалять. Я не знаю, зачем подпускать того кто может быть неприятен, чтобы потом его удалять, если он таковым и окажется. Нафига мне этот забег по незнакомым мужикам?

Ну, вот я, например, общалась с одним товариСЧем. Очень начитан, и по-Хранцузски цитирует и по-англиЦки.. Пару-тройку дней переписывались, я фотки в инете пробила — нормальный мужик, страница есть в ВК — все соответствует. Обменялись телефонами. Через день позвонил: привет-привет.. Куда вся начитанность девалась? Голос такой, что любой пропойца по сравнению с ним — Плассидо Доминго.. Ну, чё — после 2 фраз я сказала «извините, нам лучше не встречаться».. И с разными переменными так было несколько раз.. Так штаа — сначала услышать живьем..

И что вы потеряли? несколько дней интересной переписки? Да уж, трагедия!..

Так и вы ничего не потеряете, если сразу пообщаетесь, зато сколько времени сэкономите… Хотя, если цель бла-бла-бла, то чего не писать-то?

я только после телефонного разговора встречалась с кандидатом. У него может быть характерный неприятный акцент, плохая реакция на шутки, плохой юмор… много чего, что отвернет. По телефону перед свиданием обязательно надо поболтать)

Так я о встрече и не говорю — только о продолжении общения. И я еще ни разу не встречала человека, тобы — вот все в нем прекрасно, а голос настолько все портит, что фу. Но люди разные, и это нормально.

Я встречала и не один раз.. Поэтому предпочитаю один раз услышать, чем 100 раз увидеть буквы на экране.. :):)

и я) Южный акцент не люблю, шутки дурацкие, тембр неприяятный… всяко бывало) А пишет вроде и ничего. Поэтому телефонный тест нужен, чем быстрее, тем лучше)

Как человек может понравится, если у него голос противный?

Когда я была молодая и глупая, то давала номер. В итоге иногда мне звонили посреди ночи с пьяными воплями: «А ты кто? Да пофиг, приезжай к нам в баню, и подружку захвати». Звонили не потому, что я из тех, кто может приехать, или давала повод так о себе думать, а только потому, что этот самый номер у них был. После этого я поумнела.

Во во, на хрена незнакомым маньякам свой телефон давать?

Ох, сколько же на свете пуганых ланей.. Зачем вы вообще идете на СЗ? Сидите тихонько дома, если не знаете как поставить номер в черный список.. Хотя, когда вы были «молодая и глупая», вероятно, черных списков еще не было?

Для СЗ, Авито и т.п. заводят отдельный номер.

Потому что там сидят в основном замужние, обделённые вниманием дамы, которые жаждут флирта, комплиментов и приятностей в обмен на откровенные фото, а встречаться вовсе не собираются.

Девочки , а женщину женщине там можно найти приятную? Или там в основном гетеро?

Тьфу! Хадость!

Мне гадость не надо. Мне бы приятную.

Наверняка специализированные площадки для ж-ж есть. Не может не быть

интересно

На мамбе точно ищут, мне даже писали, хотя я гетеро.

мне женщины писали иногда.

Так вы в поисковике задайте параметры поиска — женщина ищет женщину. И покажут вам мУльЁн таких же искательниц счастья..

Я просто ни разу на такие сайты не заходила. Но, спасибо. Может решусь.

Ну я вот тоже сразу предлагаю переходить в мессенджер, буквально после пары фраз. Ну если хоть каплю интересно. Мне как раз на сайте сидеть в лом и некогда. А тут как бы личное общение. Если человеку надо долго сидеть и мечтать-переписываться на Тиндере — мне нет. Зато сразу ясно

Сын пожаловался на Тиндер, что все девушки татуировпанные, в вызывающих позах и сумму озвучивают. Так что телефон не самое худшее.

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   • Some spam bots may now be programmed to time their responses. Monitor future messages for inconsistencies, such as for responses that seem generic rather than tailored to your conversation, those that sound nonsensical, and those with poor grammar and spelling.
   • One way to test for bots is to send a nonsense message. Type a bunch of random letters like “agdsgdgdf.” Bots will respond to it as if it is a normal message.

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   • Some scams will send you a phone number. Don’t give out your phone number or other personal information. Search the phone number through a reverse phone lookup if you are unsure about its legitimacy.^[7]
     
   • Look out also for quickly-sent links where the spammer tells you something along the lines of “you’ve got to check this out” or “you won’t believe this.” Often, they don’t explain the unsolicited link, but they may also talk about an amazing application, video, or product. Don’t even look at these.^[8]
     

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   Be aware of how many questions they ask you. Real scammers on Tinder will try to solidify a connection with you. They will ask you lots of questions about yourself, particularly about past relationships and your financial situation. They won’t want to tell you lots of details about themselves, and if they do, look out for any inconsistencies.^[9]
   

   • Never give out significant personal information when getting to know someone on Tinder.
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   Perform a Google search on images. Create a screenshot of a person’s picture using your phone, then go to CTRLQ.org. Click the “upload picture” button to reverse search the image. This may link you to the location where the image was taken from, such as Facebook or a cam site, revealing telltale signs such as the person’s name differing between accounts.^[11]
   

   • CTRLQ.org doesn’t always work as well as directly searching from Google. To do this, you will have to send the picture to your computer by connecting your phone through USB, e-mailing it, or storing it in a service such as Microsoft OneDrive or Google Drive. Retrieve the image, then go to the image tab on Google’s search engine. Click the camera icon in the search box.
   • Screenshots on Android are done by holding down the power and volume-down buttons at the same time. On Apple products, hold the Sleep button near the top of the device, then press the home button at the bottom of the device.^[12]
     

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   Never send money. Spam bots will entice you to sign up for a website, whereas scammers will ask you to send money to help them out of a bad situation, such as car or family trouble. As soon as you are asked for money, cut off all contact.^[13]
   

   • This includes never putting your credit card into linked cam sites or information lookup sites. Perform your own searches on the person through Google and, when using reverse phone lookup, stop once you get the phone number’s area of origin for free.

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   Be protective of your personal information. Some spammers and scammers will ask you for sensitive information. Besides social security, credit card, and bank information, don’t give out your work and home addresses. Also, don’t give out your phone number to someone you don’t trust.^[14]
   

   • For example, a scammer may ask for your address to send you a gift and others will ask questions early on about how much money you make or where you bank to get a sense of how much of a target you are. Scam websites ask for your credit card and other personal information.
   • Some spam bots will give you a phone number early on to build trust. Remember to check it online for legitimacy. Don’t give out your phone number until you feel safe, since it can be used to sign you up for spam.

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   Reverse lookup a phone number. When someone gives you a number, research it. You can Google search it to see if the area code matches your area. Also, go online to sites such as Whitepages or Reverse Phone Lookup. Type in the number and it will give you some information, such as the location of the phone.^[15]
   

   • Lookup sites offer full reports for a small fee, but this offer isn’t recommended. You will get enough information from a standard search without sharing your credit card.

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• Someone asking you for money is a sure sign of a scam.^[16]
  

• When a situation appears too good to be true, chances are it is.

• Never click links directing you off of Tinder unless you are absolutely sure they are safe. Shortened links should not be trusted.

• Never hand out personal information, including addresses, bank information, and phone numbers.

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1. 

   1

   Avoid profiles with weird links in the biographies. Some profiles will direct you to click on a link. Beware of any profiles that say, for example, “if you want to learn more about me” or “check out my website.” If the URL looks shortened, it most likely leads to a scam site.

   • While some profiles may offer legitimate links, never click on a link if you feel unsure.

2. 

   2

   Watch out for profiles with one photo or glamor shots. Profiles with one photo, especially when accompanying bios devoid of key details such as occupation and education, are red flags. Also avoid profiles that depend on professional-looking photos, photos that look edited, or photos of celebrities. Skip profiles that confuse you with many photos of different people. Finally, always pass on profiles that try to lure you with scantily-clad, perfect-looking bodies.^[1]
   

   • For example, many spam bots rely on women in suggestive poses wearing bikinis or underwear. Male-themed profiles may show shirtless men with well-chiseled abs.
   • Scammers are refining their bots, so a spam profile may hide behind an image of a cute girl or boy you’d find next door. If the person looks like a model, it’s probably too good to be true.^[2]
     

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3. 

   3

   Check to see if you have friends and interests in common. Tinder’s algorithm attempts to match you with people nearby based on friends and interests you have added to Facebook. When you get matched with a profile that shares nothing in common with you, it is likely a spam bot that didn’t add interests to Facebook.^[3]
   

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1. 

   1

   Distrust fast replies. Many spam bots will send you a message as soon as you are matched with them. This is to lure you in quickly. Even if this doesn’t happen, consider the speed of messages. Do any come faster than a real person should be able to type? If so, it is a spam bot.^[4]
   

   • Some spam bots may now be programmed to time their responses. Monitor future messages for inconsistencies, such as for responses that seem generic rather than tailored to your conversation, those that sound nonsensical, and those with poor grammar and spelling.
   • One way to test for bots is to send a nonsense message. Type a bunch of random letters like “agdsgdgdf.” Bots will respond to it as if it is a normal message.

2. 

   2

   Be suspicious of conversations that quickly become suggestive. Most people won’t jump to racy talk when speaking with a stranger through Tinder. Bots however will quickly escalate the conversation such as by suggesting you may get a phone number if you “play with them” or through other sexually charged messages.^[5]
   

3. 

   3

   Back out when they immediately want to leave the app. Soon enough, the bot will ask you to go somewhere else. They’ll give you a link, saying that they want to leave Tinder or talk to you in private on another site. Do not click any link they show you. If you do, do not give up your credit card information.^[6]
   

   • Some scams will send you a phone number. Don’t give out your phone number or other personal information. Search the phone number through a reverse phone lookup if you are unsure about its legitimacy.^[7]
     
   • Look out also for quickly-sent links where the spammer tells you something along the lines of “you’ve got to check this out” or “you won’t believe this.” Often, they don’t explain the unsolicited link, but they may also talk about an amazing application, video, or product. Don’t even look at these.^[8]
     

4. 

   4

   Be aware of how many questions they ask you. Real scammers on Tinder will try to solidify a connection with you. They will ask you lots of questions about yourself, particularly about past relationships and your financial situation. They won’t want to tell you lots of details about themselves, and if they do, look out for any inconsistencies.^[9]
   

   • Never give out significant personal information when getting to know someone on Tinder.
   • As you progress, be alert during all your interactions. Once you build trust, look for scam signs, such as the person making excuses not to meet you, not having new photos to send, or requests for money.^[10]
     

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1. 

   1

   Perform a Google search on images. Create a screenshot of a person’s picture using your phone, then go to CTRLQ.org. Click the “upload picture” button to reverse search the image. This may link you to the location where the image was taken from, such as Facebook or a cam site, revealing telltale signs such as the person’s name differing between accounts.^[11]
   

   • CTRLQ.org doesn’t always work as well as directly searching from Google. To do this, you will have to send the picture to your computer by connecting your phone through USB, e-mailing it, or storing it in a service such as Microsoft OneDrive or Google Drive. Retrieve the image, then go to the image tab on Google’s search engine. Click the camera icon in the search box.
   • Screenshots on Android are done by holding down the power and volume-down buttons at the same time. On Apple products, hold the Sleep button near the top of the device, then press the home button at the bottom of the device.^[12]
     

2. 

   2

   Never send money. Spam bots will entice you to sign up for a website, whereas scammers will ask you to send money to help them out of a bad situation, such as car or family trouble. As soon as you are asked for money, cut off all contact.^[13]
   

   • This includes never putting your credit card into linked cam sites or information lookup sites. Perform your own searches on the person through Google and, when using reverse phone lookup, stop once you get the phone number’s area of origin for free.

3. 

   3

   Be protective of your personal information. Some spammers and scammers will ask you for sensitive information. Besides social security, credit card, and bank information, don’t give out your work and home addresses. Also, don’t give out your phone number to someone you don’t trust.^[14]
   

   • For example, a scammer may ask for your address to send you a gift and others will ask questions early on about how much money you make or where you bank to get a sense of how much of a target you are. Scam websites ask for your credit card and other personal information.
   • Some spam bots will give you a phone number early on to build trust. Remember to check it online for legitimacy. Don’t give out your phone number until you feel safe, since it can be used to sign you up for spam.

4. 

   4

   Reverse lookup a phone number. When someone gives you a number, research it. You can Google search it to see if the area code matches your area. Also, go online to sites such as Whitepages or Reverse Phone Lookup. Type in the number and it will give you some information, such as the location of the phone.^[15]
   

   • Lookup sites offer full reports for a small fee, but this offer isn’t recommended. You will get enough information from a standard search without sharing your credit card.

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• Someone asking you for money is a sure sign of a scam.^[16]
  

• When a situation appears too good to be true, chances are it is.

• Never click links directing you off of Tinder unless you are absolutely sure they are safe. Shortened links should not be trusted.

• Never hand out personal information, including addresses, bank information, and phone numbers.

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